Do you worry constantly if you're still relevant? Do you look at yourself in the mirror and wonder if people love you enough? Maybe you could do more to be more attractive to women. But then, what if that alienates the men? And are kids into you? That's not inappropriate to ask, right?
Oh god. It's all so difficult. What is to be done? Life is just unending existential dread.
The pep talk
Look, ODIs, we're not going to sugarcoat it. Your younger sibling can't keep gaining fans fast enough. The older one still has the affections of the aunties and uncles. You, well…
What do you mean what's wrong with them? The same thing that's been wrong with them for years. They're boring. For crying out loud, ODIs, how many times do we have to explain it to you? We gave you two new balls. We changed around your powerplays. We tried to manufacture astronomical scores. We even had Martin Guptill hit a World Cup knockout double-hundred
in you, ODIs. Martin Guptill!
Everyone's getting sick of your crap. Broadcasters are cooling on you. Even Ben Stokes wants nothing to do with you
now. Pull your stuff together before you get canned.
Haaaah, T20s, waddup playaa! Rockin' dem Commonwealth Games. Nice! And look at all that real estate. You're really spreading yourself all over that calendar. The Big Bash League in January. Then the Pakistan Super League. Domestic windows for the Bangladesh and Caribbean Premier Leagues too.
So, what you thinking? Year-long franchise contracts for players who'll essentially play for one employer across the different leagues? An even bigger window as the IPL expands to 12 teams? Chip implants so that cricket fans can only have IPL dreams?
Umm, we hate to ask, but are you sure you're not sucking up everyone else's oxygen, T20s? No?
Okay, we'll take your word for it. Can we have some money?
Dear Test Cricket sir,
Please carry on as usual, sir. These useless cricket boards will only schedule two-Test series.
But we are sure the Big Three will do the needful, with their Virat Kohli shouting, and the Bazball, and the Pat Cummins dreamy spells, and eyes, and face structure.
Baz on Bazball
As many will know, Bazball took the English cricket media, and by extension every square centimetre of the multiverse, by storm in late June. But what does the prophet himself think about the phenomenon?
"I don't have any idea what 'Bazball' is,"
Brendon McCullum told Australia's SEN radio. "It's not just all crash and burn, if you look at the approach, and that's why I don't really like that silly term that people are throwing out there."
SLC sadness corner
Usually the Sri Lankan cricket board is the digger of the ditches it so frequently falls into. This time, though, despite having recently successfully hosted Australia and Pakistan for bilaterals, the board was forced to move the men's Asia Cup
it was due to host in August, to the UAE. This is mainly because of the inability to guarantee sufficient fuel to run the vehicles required to organise a multi-team tournament, as well as sponsors' unwillingness to bring their clients to crisis-hit Sri Lanka. The Lanka Premier League also had to be "postponed"
due to the crisis, and the lack of sponsors, essentially.
There's a credible argument that SLC essentially acts as an extension of the worst aspects of Sri Lanka's government, and as such is complicit in the crisis. But right now, it's Sri Lanka's fans who will miss out on a major tournament at home. For that, there can be an unqualified lament.
Andrew Fidel Fernando is ESPNcricinfo's Sri Lanka correspondent. @afidelf